Life Lessons....

Things That I LOVE About Women…


So this is MY list of things that i love about women, a collection from things that i love (obviously) and things from my relationship with ย Scarlett aswell and i felt that i should write something like this so you all know how amazing women you are and that there are men who appreciate and love all these things (no matter how big or small they seem!)

I hope i inspire people to write their own lists…. if you do please let me know and if you like what I’ve written please like and even reblog it! i hope to reach as many people as i can. So here goes…

I Love…

  • The way you smile when someone tells you you’re beautiful (even though for some CRAZY reason you don’t believe them)
  • Your hair
  • How it sometimes takes you forever to get ready (i actually used to enjoy watching my ex get ready)
  • How when you leave the house i find 295372719495 hair clips all over the house
  • Your Eyes!!!!
  • Your smile
  • How proud/the face you made when i was playing soccer/football (because you knew how good i was and how much i tried when you was there)
  • How much you laughed when i nearly made your whole family throw up playing sports with them because of how quietly competitive i was
  • The way you told me that i will be a great man and a great husband and father one day
  • How all the doubts about life you took away with just one look
  • How amazing you were/are around children
  • How your hands are always warmer than mine
  • The way you get excited on a date night
  • Your smell/perfume
  • How much family matters to you
  • How much you listen and pay attention to something even if you don’t really like it or care about it (like my favourite sports or music etc)
  • How you enjoy your food and get me trying more foods!
  • Your sense of humour
  • Your strong and warm heart
  • How beautiful you are with no makeup
  • How affectionate and how close you like being
  • The way you smile after we kiss
  • The way you nag (in a good way) when i need to do something important like go to the doctors etc
  • How you share your life with me and appreciate the life i share with you
  • How you talk in your sleep
  • Your sneeze (yes i said that!)
  • When you bite your lip
  • When your hair is in a ponytail or pigtails
  • When you wear my clothes
  • How you put others before you
  • How cute you can be when you’re jealous (see the next point!!)
  • How you would kiss me after reassuring you that i only had eyes for you
  • How AMAZING you look in a dress
  • Spooning!! Big spoon or little i don’t care ๐Ÿ˜›
  • The look on your face when i would surprise you at work
  • The way you say “I Love You
  • The face you make when i tell you that “I Love You
  • Your hugs and kisses
  • Your body
  • How you lay on my chest and wrap your leg around me
  • How you react when i tickle your back
  • How goofy and funny you can be
  • All the TV shows you love (Friends, One Tree Hill Etc)
  • Your sweet tooth and how much you loved me bringing you chocolate!
  • All the songs we share!
  • All the times we’ve laughed and cried together
  • How you buy us men something (even if its big or small) just to let us know that you’re thinking of us and care
  • When you play video games with us
  • How you make life exciting when you’re around
  • How you have 132434657434548 Dresses/Clothes/Shoes but still cant decide what to wear ๐Ÿ˜›
  • The way you’d sit on my knee
  • When you’d fall asleep on me in the cinema
  • The way you hold my hand
  • When you rest your head on my shoulder
  • When you know how I’m feeling or what I’m thinking even when i try to hide it (wether it be because I’m feeling down or sad etc)
  • How you make me want to do everything better
  • How you make me a better man
  • Having really vulnerable and intimate conversations about life and love and thoughts and feelings etc
  • The way you look when you run
  • Your sense of style and the clothes you wear
  • How you love to shop for me and pick out clothes and stuff for me
  • Kisses in the rain!
  • Always being by my side at social gatherings and sitting with me when I’m somewhere i find really awkward (like your rich auntie and uncles massive family party)
  • All the amazing and sweet text messages and phone calls throughout the day
  • The neck/collarbone area!
  • Your ears and how cute and small they are
  • How soft your skin is
  • When you’ve just come out of the shower and you’re wearing a towel
  • When you laugh at my jokes when they’re not funny
  • Flirting, how it can go from 0-100 real quick
  • Eye contact from far away and the smile that you make when you’re happy to see me
  • Your sexy phone voice
  • How you ALWAYS used to play with your belly button
  • How you used to have SO MANY different smiles, like smiles when you were thinking of something that made you happy or the smile you used to do when only looking at me, the fake smile when you were sad but wanted to hide it, i could list more!
  • How you always used to say you were cold so you could take one of my jackets or jumpers and i would never get it back ๐Ÿ˜›
  • All the car trips and laughs in the car singing to our favourite songs
  • All your cute hidden talents
  • How unintentionally and intentionally sexy you are
  • How you look in your underwear
  • How much you love kisses on your neck and collarbone
  • How you would get excited talking about the future (usually about having a nice cottage somewhere and being married with a mini me running around the house!)
  • How EVERYTHING made you emotional or how you found everything cute
  • Our favourite spot/hiding place
  • How much you loved that i could tell when we were texting when you was tired (literally freaked her out haha)

I’m sure I’ve missed so many more things out aswell but i feel that most men don’t appreciate or show appreciation for the little things that makes you YOU, and you may have been burnt or hurt in the past or scared to love again but never give up, just because you had 1 bad experience (or a few sometimes), i do believe there is someone out there for everyone but you have to keep being yourself, stay classy, keep your standards high and there will be guys who will be willing to walk 1000 miles for you.

Your Friend Always,

GS xo


To my future daughter…

I saw this the other day and I think it’s relevant to the ladies out there and also to the future daughters of some of the guys who may read this blog!

How to find and spot a good man who’s perfect for you and to your daughter! There’s some rocks disguised as diamonds out there so choose wisely

Comment below if you agree or disagree

Your Friend,

G.S x



Random thoughts poem 2….

A troubled man may lose his way
And forget all that was loved
But with strength and courage he will learn to fly
To the skies and stars above

A happy man may find his smile
And remember all we shared
Although the smile may still remain
A part of him will feel bare

If you see this man don’t look at him with fear
Just smile and hold him close
Because though time and life may pass him by
He still loves you the most

Your Friend,

G.S ๐ŸŒน

Life Lessons....



Okay so we all have that one (or quite a few people) that have effected your life positively and negatively through love and heartbreak…. And I must admit my Recovery from Scarlett has it’s high points, it’s low points and all the points in between.

So I thought I’d talk about some of the points, firstly I will talk about inspiration. It’s actually made me a stronger person by my love for her is helping my writing and chasing my dream, she wanted me achieving it, she did support all that I did and now that she’s not around me I feel I have a duty to fulfil, for her and obviously for myself. GO CHASE YOUR DREAMS GUYS!!!!!!!!!

Secondly I want to talk about bitterness. Yes you’ve read that properly, I’m not gunna lie I hated her guts for a very long time, I couldn’t hear OUR songs anymore, she ruined all the things I used to love and enjoy doing, and a part of me and a lot of my determination comes from wanting to prove her wrong, that I am a good man, that I did love her as much as I always told her, that I will become successful, that I will have a secure future etc, some will use bitterness in bad ways, but I try to convert it to positive, when I forget why I started chasing my dream, I think of her, I think of the feeling of the love, support and also loneliness, sadness, hurt in my heart and I get fired up again, I remember and treasure them moments to get me back in the game!
Don’t be bitter be BETTER that’s what I try to remember.

My next point is Blessing. Blessing in disguise, I’ve been loved, I’ve been passionately kissed, I’ve been romantic for and with someone, I’ve been on adventures I’ve laughed and cried with my soulmate, and some people never experience this, and I feel for them, I’m glad in ways they haven’t felt my pain but the love even for how ever long or short it is it’s incredible, I even crave it some days, to be able to look and think “I wanna spend the rest of my life with you” or even thinking what our children would look like!, it’s crazy and no wonder it drives some humans INSANE!, love will come to you all, enjoy your life as it is and eventually embrace a loved one in your life!!! :).

Last one is QUE SERA.
What will be will be as my brother says, some people are in your life for a REASON, some only a SEASON, appreciate both whilst they’re in your life and let time guide you on your journey,

It’s not about the destination it’s about the JOURNEY.

Enjoy your ride and be safe, love will set you free.

Thank you SCARLETT for making me laugh when I didn’t feel like smiling!, and for all the hard and great lessons I’ve learned over the years with and without you.

If you like this please give it a like and keep your comments coming!

Love Always,
Your Friend,

G.S ๐ŸŒน