Life Lessons....

What Life Is About…

I’ve been working at my new place for nearly a month and I start back in a few hours and dya know what? I’m already dreading it, ill be honest with you I’ve realised alot over the past couple of weeks and I’ve really reflected and discovered what’s important to me, so I’m gonna be bold and brutally honest and I hope you all can relate or benefit from hearing what life is about in my eyes.

Do NOT sacrifice your happiness and what you love for MONEY, I don’t give a shit what excuses you may tell yourself but you cannot replace TIME, time as in with your partner, your loved ones, your family, your friends.

Stay in bed with your lover a little longer, cherish the small things in life, focus on a career that makes you fire up your belly with excitement, be with someone who creates fireworks in your eyes and heart, save your money work towards your goals and BE HAPPY.


Take a fucking risk!!!, it’s a massive risk me taking this job and I HATE working Monday to Friday, but I need the money and in a year or 2 guess what, I’m gunna take another risk and quit my job and go towards my goal and dreams.

Take risks in love!, be bold!! Go tell that girl or guy you like them, stop waiting for the right time because there’s NEVER a right time!, look ill never get Scarlett back and for us who have loved so truly and deeply and it’s been longer than a few months can’t just one day go “hey Scarlett guess what? Should have fought for you and I’m still in love with you etc”, I wish I had the answers, I wish I knew where this road has and will take me!

Quit that shitty job and go find something and someone who makes YOU happy! fuck everyone else, your friends and your family because only YOU know what’s right for YOUR life!

I want you all to do me a favour, I want you to write a list of 5 things you want to do this year that are BOLD decisions wether it’s a holiday or quitting your job, finding love/dating again, whatever it is go do it NOW


FIND YOUR PASSION, what comes effortless to you? What do you TRULY love? What do you enjoy?, find something that makes you look forward to waking up, take a chance, believe in yourself and support those around you!

This year can be whatever you want it to be, make it a happy and abundant one…for YOUR sakes, you are the one who’s suffering, I’ve loved and I’ve lost, I’ve tortured myself for days months and years and I tell you the biggest pain is regret, don’t have regrets!

I know it seems easier said than done but the first step is always the hardest!

Be kind to someone today, give them your hand, give someone a hug or an ear who needs it!

We are all going through some shit that we know NOTHING about! So be a little kinder today.

It’s important and can make the world and even more beautiful place than it already can be.

I love you all and please reblog, like, tag whoever needs to read this!

I hate that people go through life with no sense of direction or no balls to make a change! It’s all upto you. You are great and powerful beyond your wildest dreams!!!!!

Dream big. Smile lots and take risks. Fall in love, feel every emotion.

I believe in you.

Love always,

GS x





40 thoughts on “What Life Is About…

  1. Fuck ya! I love it! Every word is true. I’m going to borrow that sign, too, that says, “Laugh like you’re 10…” I truly try to live that way.

    Big hugs and here’s hoping that 2015 brings great things to you!


    • Thank you!!! I love your energy and it’s coming from the heart I felt I had to get It off my chest and take it :)! I’m trying to live by it too!

      Sending hugs back and definitely same to you, let’s make this year the best year yet!!!

      GS x

  2. theconfessor1971 says:

    Thanks for ‘liking’ my recent blog post….this post you wrote above….Wow! It’s like you wrote it just for me! This is going a be a definitive year of change! Thanks for posting this!

  3. I love this post!!
    For someone who has trouble with themselves, this was put in such a great way for reminding me to look out for me.
    Thank you from the bottom of my heart. It’s words like this from real people that help someone like me go on.

    Namaste πŸ™‚

    • Always look after yourself and put your wants and needs first!! My pleasure and thank YOU people like you are my inspiration and you can achieve great things πŸ™‚

      Keep pushing and be happy πŸ™‚ x

  4. juanahelena says:

    I love this post, GS! I can’t wait for the day when I don’t need to clock in and out due to necessity, but can work on my own time doing something I love.

    • Haha I worried that I might have been abit too intense and passionate but it’s a post that I couldn’t just talk in halves, and the swearing is just emphasising what I wanted to say, I’m glad you enjoy you enjoy my cussing πŸ™‚

      Thank you for the lovely comment it made me smile πŸ™‚ have a great day!

    • Wow. Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m so happy that you’ve enjoyed my post and felt the passion that I wrote this post with! Your comment has made me smile so much! Dream big, go for whatever you want and desire in life you deserve it! Thank you for checking out my blog πŸ™‚

  5. Lately I’ve been feeling the same way about how my life is going and where it’s going. Reading this one blog alone made me love what you write. Great advice! I’m already hooked on what you write about.

    • Wow! Thank you so much :)!!!!! I’m so happy that you’ve enjoyed it, I try and write about alot of things, mainly things that I’ve gone through and my own mistakes Etc, I hope that you go after your dreams and desires and this year sincerely can be whatever YOU decide for it, so make it a big, happy and positive step towards everything you’ve ever imagined! πŸ™‚ this comment has made my day πŸ™‚

  6. You write the truth, GS. Thank you for the inspiration! I think it’s going to be a fabulous year for you.
    In fact for all of us, scribbling away expressing ourselves, it’s going to be a fabulous year!

  7. This is really powerful and inspiring! It’s funny because I actually wrote a post pretty similar to this as well. IT IS SO TRUE that money does not buy happiness and passion exceeds all. I have worked many shitty jobs and realized that without fulfillment, life is worthless. Great post! Glad I found you.

    • Brilliant I will have to check your blog more in depth πŸ™‚ and it is! I’m doing mon-fri 8.30 till 5 and I literally need the money and it’s so unfulfilling because I’m unhappy but trying to keep positive and remember WHY I’m doing this and doing it for my family Etc and to facilitate my dreams. You are so right! Don’t settle for shitty jobs! Nothing lasts forever and be happy! I’m so happy and pleased that you’ve commented πŸ™‚

      • Thanks I appreciate that! And I will for yours as well. Blogging full time and making a living off of it would be my absolute dream job. That is SOOO amazing that you do this for your family. So far from what I have seen, your writings are excellent! Never give up πŸ™‚ I work full time right now but I try to blog as much as I can at home…it feels like an addiction and I love it!! “Love your job and you will never work a day in your life.”

    • Absolutely you’ve got it right πŸ™‚ sometimes it can be anything from taking responsibility of your life to chasing your dream, helping others, finding your passion, whatever the hell makes you happy! GO FOR IT, there’s never a right time but just go for it don’t wait for the perfect moment

  8. dara40 says:

    So true. I took the risk, quit a job making almost 60,000 a year. I couldn’t take it anymore, it was making me anxious. I am better for it and much happier now.

    • How did it feel?, that is some big money to be honest but as long as you’re happy that’s the most important thing. I mean I’ve struggled financially and I work in an average job chasing my dream but you’ve just got to keep going!! Have a great day

      • dara40 says:

        Yeah, that was big money to let go of and it took two years to do it, to be honest. Once I started writing and doing a couple of other things that I loved more, I just left. I’ve just had to learn to downsize my life. I have a lot less stress, that’s for sure. Why can’t we have money and passion in a career? Maybe one day…

      • It is! And I don’t blame you to be fair and I know I wish, I really want to get into music and acting and this money from my full time job is going into that and travelling. I’d give anything be travel and gig. Maybe one day, never give up! What would you like to do?

      • dara40 says:

        Well, I write, for free of course, but I also have a pet sitting business. It’s just slow getting going right now.

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