Okay, so I would like to say except my username I am and have been myself and completely honest about a lot of things, so here’s a special one that I have decided to share with you all. These are a list and kind of explanation of WHY I THINK I AM SINGLE, just for abit of fun and a reality check to myself! Enjoy!
1. MONEY MONEY MONEY
It’s a rich mans world (no pun intended), you see I do have 2 jobs technically and I’m still in pursuit of a decent and more certain career in the things I love but it’s not generated a lot of money. I’ve had opportunity to do things id be miserable at for a little more cash and I chose to do what makes ME happy, and I believe it’s important BUT in my relationships it has cost me. I went out with a girl who’s house is worth over £500,000 and her aunties and uncles were the same! I went to visit a friend of mine and hers and his house was worth more than £2Million ! They actually lived a life I couldn’t keep up with……
Advice to fellas: Get a good/concrete job, that’s well paid for how you want to live your lifestyle….ACT YOUR WAGE.
2.READY STEADY COOK!
Now ladies if you LOVE burnt toast and microwave meals then I’m your man ;), as much as I enjoy going on dates and romantic meals one of the things that annoys me is cooking, learning and doing it, I tried so hard for me and Scarlett and I just couldn’t, and we would always end up at a Pizza Hut or somewhere to eat out because I was rubbish and she was first to remind me also haha!, man if I had a family id be stuffed because they wouldn’t eat!
Advice for fellas: take time in trying to cook, even small meals or cute meals even if it’s easy sometimes it makes the world of good!, even if you have that one special dish that she likes I will help 🙂 one way to a woman’s heart is FOOD!!! 🙂
I feel hurt putting this a little but to some peoples (beginning with S) their taste in your function and stability in your family isn’t what they want or appreciate. My mum and dad went through a tough divorce which she knew at the time but also she started to realise that I don’t see much of my other relatives aunts uncles cousins, only my grandma and 1 auntie and I used to visit my grandad a lot before he passed, in comparisons to her regular visit to her grandmas far away, family night once every week of the month (which I was one of 2 people accepted as family to be invited) her cousins and aunties were always around, mother and father still together and siblings in relationships, she kind of wanted the same as what she had, also at the time there was friction or uncertainty about acceptance in my family (even though I reassured her myself) which did cause ALOT of problems and hurt for myself
Advice to fellas: just be yourself, it’s something you actually can’t change and control, accept each other for who you are and that you are going out with them for THEM not their families.
4. IM PETER PAN!
I’m deadly serious! I’m close to my mid 20’s and I miss being a kid….I still am a child in a lot of ways, it’s a good and bad thing… I always felt and kinda felt like I was made to feel IMMATURE, sounds crazy but I did I can’t explain it but I’m the baby of the family, I like my movies my video games my snuggles and being happy and joking around and all I’ve discovered maturing is that not a lot of people appreciate and want that or see that in their lives, I’ve had a lot of fun and stuff sapped out of me yet I feel like a kid still.
Advice: Take responsibility, never grow up in a sense but learn and grow every day into the adult life, be realistic And see life for what it is. Good and bad.
5. “HI! IM GENTLEMAN SPARKS!”
That’s not my real name(DUH :-P), but I don’t APPROACH women, I usually become friends first and either I or them fall for each other, I don’t go on nights out approaching women and getting all up in their business, hell I don’t even stare from a distance (I ain’t buying lobster just to feed that hehe)
I am a good flirt but only when I am serious about someone I can’t just egg someone on and just randomly flirt etc, but sometimes approaching is the most important step of all!
Advice: SHES NOT OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE (or HE), just go for it, the worst they can say is no or I’m taken etc and move on!!! There’s so many beautiful people out there and some who like you who you have no clue! Go talk to them!!! NOW!!
6. NE-YO – Let Go
Listen to the song and you’ll know what I mean. But when you really love someone, I’m not talking about saying it just coz it’s fitting I mean when you plan on marrying the love of your life, great chemistry, always a laugh, planning things, making promises, the memories and everything is hard to erase and just remove from your brain, sometimes it does make things worse because it hinders me finding someone different, but I’m old school, you all know me by now, it hurt me ALOT, caused pain in my life that I didn’t need or deserve, maybe I will forgive and let go of it one day who knows!
Advice: don’t meet someone else until you’re over it, don’t be with someone because you’re lonely, wait, invest time in yourself and love yourself FIRST.
I’m sorry for all the text! If you got this far please leave a like, leave a comment, what reasons do you think you’re single? Etc
Until next time, take care and keep smiling we are all beautiful and perfect in our own ways.